We are in habit to blame other when we fail to succeed in life. but it is wrong ,If we go through the incident and try to discuss the same in open mind,then we will see that we are the culprit for the fault.

in our young age we do not care for anything whatever it may be but in the long run we have to repent for the same. As for example it may be said that at your young age you did not give proper attention in study of your child, so in the latter part of your life when you are blaming your children for not doing well in his life ,you should understand that you are responsible for the same.If you would have given proper attention upon your child in due time ,then this days would not come. It is fact all are not equal meritorious but in real life only merrit can not be the factor to stand in life.

I am also giving another example which I have in in my life. My friend was in Govt. service. For the better financial help of the family of his in-law he started printing business and gave them full authirity to use it at their own will,and gave all financial help to rise the business. But my friend did not care to look into the business and out of relationship he never enquired about the profit and loss of the business. His father -in law was so canning person that when my friend would enquire about the account of the business the father in -law would give big talk and would say he is doing all effort to increase the business. My friend was a man of broad mind and as he did not felt so need of money so he did not ask for the share of the profit of the business. My friend thought in mind after retirement he will look properly upon the business. In the mean time the canning father.in .law of my friend convinced his daugher in such way that the wife of my friend allowed his father to keep the amount of other source of income. His elder brother-in law out of anger told my friend "evi to babuji ko paisa the rahe ho to bohut achha log rohe he jas paisa mangengto asal chehera dekh lenge' The real face of his father -in -law came to him at the time of giving marriage of his daughter.That very father -in-low did not given him a single piece of the income of the press. on the other hand compelled my friend to sale his one house only at the price of Rs 85,000/-(eighty five thousand) which is a property of not less than three lacs. Today the condition of mf my friend is so critical that he is staying with his son as his pension is not sufficient to maintain his life. Here the tragedy of the life of my friend is that if he would give proper attention upon the business from the very beginning or if he would have listen the utterings  of his brother -in-law in time he would not have to face such days.

.............Dhiraj